Getting Old Doesn’t Mean Giving Up

Getting Old Doesn’t Mean Giving Up

My “Autumn In The Desert” series takes place in a retirement community. All the main characters are 55 and older. Conventional wisdom says that retirement is a time for golf and steadily declining health. But that is a shallow and invalid viewpoint. And the worst thing you can do if you are 55 or older is to buy into it.

The media and our unfortunate culture on the one hand ply you with golden pictures of a happy retirement to keep you locked in a job you don’t really like during your middle years, wishing your life away. Then, when you arrive at retirement, the reality of it is rarely as rosy as you’ve been led to believe. That same media and culture convince you to buy into decrepitude and decaying health. They scare you into buying all kinds of insurance, none of which gives decent coverage. Then they give you a health care system that can’t fix you.

Aging is inevitable. But you would be wise to wake up and look critically at the picture of aging that you’ve been handed. Is it the way you want to live your Golden Years? From adult diapers to assisted living, aging is painted as a time of loss, constriction and giving up. You give up the dreams of fulfillment you had as a younger person. You let go of the idea you could be healthy as you age. You face financial and physical challenges that force you to downsize and give up hope.

It is my hope that readers of my “Autumn In The Desert” series will be able to see there are other ways of looking at life after retirement. You are a human being, with dreams and plans and the ability to make things happen. Yes, it can be late to start at age 60, but that’s the beauty of life. It’s never really too late to go after your dreams, to make a good life choice, to be the person you always wanted to be.

I wish there were more books with heroes our age. We need role models to remind us that retirement shouldn’t be a ghetto lifestyle filled with gloom and regret (even a gilded one), but an ongoing journey of discovery and fulfillment. What do you want to do with your Golden Years? Please let me know what you think in the Comments section below.

Do You Read “Romance” Novels?

Do You Read “Romance” Novels?

I have eclectic reading tastes. I read just about any genre except horror. I try to judge a book based on its own merits rather than its category. But I have to admit that the traditional “Romance” category triggers judgment in me.

I’m not saying I never read books in that category. I have read historical romances and paranormal romances and other types of romances. In my opinion, romance can make a story sizzle. But a lot of romance books are shells that have cookie-cutter characters and predictable plots that exist mainly for the sex scenes. I find such books tiring.

Granted, sex can be pretty stimulating, but when I read, I want a story that grabs me and characters who seem real and a believable plot. I don’t feel turned off if there is sex in the book, but it needs to be just one part of the story and not be the sole reason for the book.

Apparently, there is a BIG market for women who read these books. I guess their sex lives are pretty boring, and romance novels are like porn for women. Soft porn, but still pandering solely to sexual appetites. And while I don’t judge people for reading such books, I don’t really want readers to think my book falls into that category.

So when I wrote my “Autumn In The Desert” series, I was loath to put it in a Romance category, yet there isn’t another category that fits. There is an element of romance for sure in my stories. And sex happens, because it’s a part of life. But as an author, I’m not into writing steamy sex scenes. It just isn’t my thing. My stories are about real people and their entire life situations, not just their sex lives.

I wish there were a Boomer Fiction category or anything that wouldn’t misrepresent my stories. “Contemporary Romance” is about the best I can do. That and “Women’s Fiction,” which to me sounds like a literary equivalent of the junk drawer most of us have in our kitchen. I just cross my fingers and hope.

Do you read romance novels? Would you be turned off from reading my book because it’s in that category? Or would you buy it and then be disappointed that it isn’t filled with steamy sex scenes? And what the heck do you think constitutes “Women’s Fiction?” Please comment below. I’m interested in your point of view.

Time & Tech Wait For No Man (Or Woman)

Time & Tech Wait For No Man (Or Woman)

I don’t think I’m alone in this, but it’s still embarrassing…but first, some background.

My first novel, “Renaissance,” Book 1 in my Autumn In The Desert series, launched on August 31, 2016, about 15 months after I first started writing it. It was a big milestone for me, because I was not a full-time writer during that period. But in mid-2014, we decided to focus more on writing, and I spent a great deal of the next several months writing nonfiction books. In early 2015, I got a brainstorm for a novel and jumped into it.

This in spite of the fact that I had a partially written science fiction novel lanquishing in the cloud. I’d started it as a real ‘spare time’ project in 2012. It required lots of research and thought, and I had nearly 82,000 words written at the time I embarked on Autumn In The Desert. I only felt I had time for one novel, so I put the science fiction on hold.

In the meantime, my laptop died and I replaced it with a Mac. I’d long wanted a Mac, but we’d never had enough money to swing it. I figured a MacBook Pro was all I needed, and when I got it, I was in seventh heaven. Just over 3 years later, I decided I would write two novels at one time, so I needed to find (I really couldn’t remember where the files were) and get writing on my science fiction novel again.

I finally remembered they were backed up on the cloud (since the PC was no more), and I went to retrieve them, only to discover that they were in the wrong format. The YWriter software I’d used to write the novel was only for PCs. It took me a lot of research, time and effort to discover how to retrieve the files. But finally, I was able to get most, if not all, of them into Scrivener on my Mac.

Technology is changing so fast these days that it’s a real challenge to keep up with it. You blink, and you’re left behind. This was a real lesson to me about not putting anything aside for long. I felt like NASA sitting on mounds of data from space missions in floppy discs, with no way to read them.

As an indie author, I have to learn all kinds of skills that traditional authors can foist off on someone else. I’m not complaining, but sometimes it leads to a panic attack, as in when your 82,000-word manuscript appears to be lost forever. And it’s pretty embarrassing to admit it didn’t occur to you that it might be a problem. But all’s well that ends well, and I’m pretty much back on track. I hope I learned my lesson.

Have you ever had an embarrassing problem like this because of rapidly changing technology? Please feel free to share in the Comments section below. I don’t want to feel like the only person to ever do something like this…


What Is “Boomer Women’s Fiction”?

What Is “Boomer Women’s Fiction”?

Boomer Women’s Fiction has arrived. There’s a growing trend in the indie author field of writing for mature adults, or ‘Boomers,’ as they are sometimes called. There may be a number of reasons for this. It’s probably true that a greater percentage of older folks read than younger folks. And mature adults might have more discretionary income than younger folks.

Of course, that doesn’t explain the explosion in the Young Adult category. Books for young adults are taking the publishing world by storm. They are often being made into movies. Could Boomer Women’s Fiction be the next big trend? I think it could.

Sadly, most booksellers don’t even have a category for mature adult fiction. My novel “Renaissance” had to be put in the Contemporary Women’s Fiction and Contemporary Romance categories, even though it didn’t really fit either. That makes it hard to find my market. I’m interested in connecting with readers who are 50+ and spend time thinking about how to make sense of their lives, how to find happiness and how to grow, even though they are no longer ‘young.’ I believe we can rewrite the endings of our lives at any time. Life isn’t over just because you reach a certain age. I want to inspire people to go after their dreams and make positive changes knowing that each day is the beginning of a new life.

On Goodreads, there are some groups and discussions about Boomer fiction. What I’ve learned is that even among authors, there is no agreed definition of this category. Many authors feel that if they are writing about the 60s and 70s, that is Boomer fiction. To me, it’s more like coming-of-age fiction, and it doesn’t require a new category. I think Boomer fiction should include stories like “The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel.” The stories should be about retired or nearly-retired people and the challenges they face and how they overcome them. But that’s just my opinion. 🙂

I see my market as people who are 50 or older, both men and women, though I’ve found women tend to be more involved in thinking about personal growth and making changes in their lives. I tell people my “Autumn In The Desert” series is comfort reading for women and a few smart men.

Are you in my market? What do you like to read that you would consider ‘Boomer Women’s Fiction’? Do you think there is a market for that type of story? Let me know what you think in the comments below.

Inspiration Or Intuition?

Inspiration Or Intuition?

A common question people ask authors is “How did you decide to write about that?” The answer isn’t always easy.

Some years ago, Nigel and I started writing nonfiction books about dowsing, a subject we are passionate about; a topic on which we are authorities. The mild success of those books led to the inevitable glimmer of hope that maybe we could successfully write fiction, too. But how do you decide what to write about?

I started a novel a few years ago on a science fiction/fantasy type subject, one that I am really interested in and believe could be a great story, but it got stalled as life took over. It is now sitting in a Scrivener file of 80,000 words, awaiting my attention.

When I renewed my commitment to writing in late 2014, I asked the Universe what I should be writing about that would be of interest to readers, rather than just what I really wanted to write about. The point being, if you want to be successful as a writer, you need to write what readers want to read.

The answer came into my head one morning as if by injection. I saw myself writing about a retirement community, and how life doesn’t end at retirement. It could be an uplifting story of the potential for happiness at any age, if you are just willing to be courageous and take action. Perhaps I was inspired to write the Autumn In The Desert series by looking at my own choices and experiences as someone over 55. I certainly changed my life dramatically as I neared my 50th birthday.

On the other hand, intuition seems to have played a part because of the way the answer came to me, not through my mental processes, but like a bolt from the blue. That’s how I can tell intuition from rational thinking; it isn’t stepwise and logical. It appears fully formed in my head, as if someone else gave it to me.

Regardless of how the idea came to me, I feel good about writing a story that hopefully will encourage readers to believe in love, to choose what will make them happy, and to be willing to make big changes to create a great life in their golden years. Life’s challenges don’t go away as we age; they intensify, giving us chances to rewrite our story. Autumn In The Desert is a series about people who rewrite their life stories; people who don’t; and it gives the reader a chance to decide which camp she’s in.